Tantra massage for couples

Overview

Couples come to me for two reasons: the touch between them has become quick and functional, or one partner wants something the other does not know how to give. This session answers both. You are in the room together the whole time. One receives a full tantra massage from me while the other watches, learns, and then joins in with their hands under my guidance.

It is part massage, part lesson. You leave with a shared experience and a set of strokes you can practise at home.

Who it is for

• Long-term couples whose intimacy has narrowed to a routine
• Couples where one partner is curious about tantra and the other is cautious. The cautious one sets the pace
• New couples who want to learn each other's bodies slowly, before habits form
• Any two adults in a relationship. Every gender pairing is welcome

What to expect

• Arrival, 20 min. Tea, and a three-way conversation. Each of you says what you want and what is off the table. I agree the plan with both of you separately and together.
• First receiver. One of you lies down. I give a full-body massage while your partner sits close, watching, with a hand resting on you where you want it.
• Hands-on teaching. Your partner joins me. I guide their hands: pressure, rhythm, where to slow down. You tell them what lands.
• Swap. The other partner receives, either in this session or a second one, depending on the time you booked.
• Rest together. Under one blanket, in silence.
• Closing. Water and a few words about what to practise at home.

Preparation

• Both shower before arriving
• Eat lightly; no alcohol that day
• Talk together beforehand about one thing you each hope for, and one thing you each do not want. Bring both to the room

How I hold the room

• Either partner can pause or stop the whole session with a word
• I touch the receiver. I only ever guide the giving partner's hands
• No partner is ever pressured to receive; watching is a complete way to take part
• What happens in the room stays in the room

Practical

• Duration: 150 minutes for one receiver with teaching; book 240 minutes for both to receive
• Location: my studio; address after booking
• Home practice: I send a short written summary of the strokes we worked on